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Grieving God

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Grieving God

(Devotion edited by Ros McDonald)

Prayer: The Comforting

Let us place our losses in the hands of God.

Dear God, you who cried when you lost a friend,

who wept over Jerusalem,

who asked friends to stay with you

while you struggled with your life,

please stay with us now, holding us in your love.

Cover our lives with the fragrant oil of your healing,

send your Spirit to comfort us in our grief,

and fill our emptiness with new things.

Gather our scattered lives into a community of love,

where loss can be shared and gifts can be given

for the easing of mourning.

We pray these prayers in confidence,

for you are our restoration and the renewal of our hope.

Amen.

(Sourced from In This Hour, Dorothy McRae-McMahon, 2001)

Read:

John 11: selected verses (NIV)

Read this 3 times, noting especially the emotion in this passage. Each time ask God’s help and think about those words or phrases that leap out at you.

Now a man named Lazarus was sick. He was from Bethany, the village of Mary and her sister Martha. (This Mary, whose brother Lazarus now lay sick, was the same one who poured perfume on the Lord and wiped his feet with her hair.) So the sisters sent word to Jesus, “Lord, the one you love is sick.”

On his arrival, Jesus found that Lazarus had already been in the tomb for four days. Now Bethany was less than two miles from Jerusalem, and many Jews had come to Martha and Mary to comfort them in the loss of their brother.

When Mary reached the place where Jesus was and saw him, she fell at his feet and said, “Lord, if you had been here, my brother would not have died.”

When Jesus saw her weeping, and the Jews who had come along with her also weeping, he was deeply moved in spirit and troubled.

“Where have you laid him?” he asked.

“Come and see, Lord,” they replied.

Jesus wept.

Thought for the Day:

Like Lazarus, many in our country are sick. We grieve for those who have died, for those who have lost employment, lost hope, lost the ability to see friends and family, lost the ability to freely leave home.

Through Jesus we meet a God who grieves with us and for us. Here, near the body of his dear friend, Jesus is “deeply moved in spirit and troubled”, affected by the weeping of the mourners.

We can give thanks that we are not alone. God is with us.

Finish by rereading the prayer.

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PRAYER:

I place my hands in yours Lord

I place my hands in yours.

I place my will in yours Lord

I place my will in yours

I place my thoughts in yours Lord

I place my thoughts in yours

I place my days in yours Lord

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Read:

Luke 1:5-20. Read this 3 times, each time asking God’s help and thinking about those words or phrases that leap out at you.

5In the time of Herod king of Judea there was a priest named Zechariah, who belonged to the priestly division of Abijah; his wife Elizabeth was also a descendant of Aaron. 6Both of them were righteous in the sight of God, observing all the Lord’s commands and decrees blamelessly. 7But they were childless because Elizabeth was not able to conceive, and they were both very old.

8Once when Zechariah’s division was on duty and he was serving as priest before God, 9he was chosen by lot, according to the custom of the priesthood, to go into the temple of the Lord and burn incense. 10And when the time for the burning of incense came, all the assembled worshipers were praying outside.

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18Zechariah asked the angel, “How can I be sure of this? I am an old man and my wife is well along in years.”

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What a strange scene. An angel appears and Zechariah knows it is an angel judging by his reaction. The angel brings astonishing good news that he and his wife are to have a miraculous birth in old age. And Zechariah asks the miraculous angel standing right in front of him in plain sight, how he can be sure?

And yet is Zechariah so different from us. His problem was the clash of world views that was taking place in his life. Life experience and social norms say that old people can’t have babies whereas God was assuring him that when God is involved other alternatives open up in life. Does that not sound like your experience and mine? Isn’t it true that God asks us to do abnormal things like loving the ‘unlovable’, and sharing Good News that changes lives. Don’t we believe in a loving personal God when the world appears as secular?

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Epilogue. God gave Zechariah the proof he asked for; miraculous muteness. Strangely his silence communicated God’s message to the community better than his spoken words.

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PRAYER:

Almighty God, Creator;

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The summer is yours, dipping into Autumn, eternity is yours, dipping into time.

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Amen.

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Read:

Titus 3:9. Read this 3 times, each time asking God’s help and thinking about those words or phrases that leap out at you.

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I have had discussions with people who aren’t Christian who throw countless arguments at you to show why Christianity is nonsense. Inside me I have known that the whole discussion was pointless because no one was going to change their mind. Was it body language, or facial expression or just how things were said that gave it away? I’m not sure but I knew.

I have had the same experience with Christians arguing over things too. Why do we do it?

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